Half Way - 6 Months

Yippy, we have passed the 6 month mark with an infant and toddler! So, does this mean that we have survived the hardest part? Somehow I think we will always be tested. This past month has been a fun month. We went to an Aviation Museum, visited a Fire Station, and had fun playing at several fall festival farms. By far, this is definitely one of my favorite seasons. I love the anticipation of the weather turning cold, the excitement of watching the leaves turn color, and of course, all of the various fall activities that we can do with the kids. I have already taught Tucker, thanks to my brother, what it means when we get a powder day. So we better get a lot of snow this winter!!!

I know that this is sentimental mushy stuff but it needs to be said. Wednesday's rock my world. It is not just the fact that I get an ENTIRE morning to myself with Hadley (which is needed) but it is also the excitement and anticipation of what awaits me at noon. There is no greater joy then when the teacher of Tucker’s class opens the classroom door for the parents to enter and I am greeted with a happy toddler running to me with his arms wide up saying Mommy!!! I love it and each time my heart melts. It makes up for all the times that I have to hear “no, daddy do it” over and over again.

Besides the various fall festivals we attended (the hay rides being the most popular) the other 2 big events of the past month were a visit from Mimi, Pop pop and Snickers as well as talking about how Brandon’s car was rear ended. All we hear is “daddy car boom” followed by an occasional tap on the back of my car. He gets even more excited when he see’s a toy tow truck! Ut oh, does this mean we have a future tow truck driver in the family? Tucker also LOVES to see the pictures and it really is a never ending hearing about how daddy’s car went boom. Fortunately the accident was quickly followed by a visit from my parents. So now he likes to split his time talking about the accident with talk about Snickers and dog bones. Tucker got a hold of one of Snickers treats and well, you can only guess what a 2 year old did with the dog bone. Now, he will sometimes ask for a doggie treat. Jumping ahead, it was quit fitting that he was a dog for Halloween. While the visit was very short, we were able to go pick out our pumpkins with Mimi. Tucker had fun running around the pumpkin patch.

Hadley is a woman on a mission. Right at the six month mark she started to crawl coupled with her ability to get up into a push up position one have one over achieving moving lady. One of her favorite stops is next to the leather chair where she likes to scratch the leather and like her brother, when she see a cord she goes right after it. Tucker is not too sure about her increasing range since she frequently makes her way close to some of his toys that he is not willing to share. I ultimately have to remind him that none of the toys are his per say, that they are mommy and daddy toys and we are sharing them with him. So, he needs to share them with Hadley. He is not convinced.

All of this movement has been making for some rather frustrating days trying to get her to nap. She will be SOOO tired but the minute we put her in her crib all she wants to do is be on her hands and knees, be up in a push up position or recently, sitting holding onto the rail. I do love going into get her in the morning and finding her sitting next to the rail looking out and then giving me a gigantic smile.

Summer Months 4 and 5

Some say that if you are still sane after your first 5/6 months with two then you are doing well. Well, we have hit the 5 month mark and I would have to say that we are doing well. This is not to say that we have had our moments trying to handle two, balance new schedules, and navigate some terrible 2 issues (yes thank you Tucker). However, one thing that Brandon and I constantly feel like we are saying is “thank goodness Tucker loves his sister.” He really displays the most amazing affection toward her. For instance, every morning he has to know where Hadley is and will run around asking Hadley..Hadley (he actually says Ladley). If she is in her crib, he climbs onto the rail and tries to pet her or he just wants to peek in to just say hi. Of course Hadley follows up with a gigantic smile. Tucker also wants to share in the experience of feeding Hadley (before he thought he could nurse her...shirt up and holding his nipple). Now that she is all bottle, we have let him partake in the task and while it gets a bit sloppy, the initiation on his part and the interest to be a part of the process is spectacular. Then there is Hadley who just ADORES her older brother. She LOVES watching him. If Tucker is hopping around the room (literally) she will want to watch and does so with a big smile. It really is a fun to watch their interaction.

So as I have been able to sit back and take these moments in, frantically at times, I have done a poor job of communicating these great events. Hence the lapse in my monthly blog updates. While this blog is as much for family and friends, it is also a memoir documenting our time as a family and hopefully something that Hadley and Tucker will enjoy reading when they get older. For the five month picture notation, I used something that Tucker created. Going forward I am going to try to use something that Tucker has either done at home or school to document the monthly picture.

Month 4 began right as we were leaving on our annual “get us the hell out Maryland” pilgrimage. I use such strong words because for me, I have to hightail it out of the state to escape the horrible heat and humidity. My mind/body does just does not tolerate the summer weather in Maryland and as such, I have to leave for an extended period of time (or as long as my parents can tolerate us intruding and taking over their house). Nevertheless, I look forward to our trip to Maine as much as I look forward to Christmas. Which means that I do not sleep for a week and am giddy with excitement.

HiHoHiHo...off to Maine we went! Let me just preface this by saying that 2 weeks is just not enough time. Furthermore by saying that in my head I had BIG plans to do things but I bit of more than I could chew. I quickly realized that I was in a bit over my head trying to handle two kids in a new environment while Brandon was gone on work trips. My parents were a big help but it did not help matters that immediately upon arriving, both kids came down with colds coupled with the fact that Tucker was just a bit out of sorts and Hadley decided that sleeping at night was for the birds. We worked through it all and had a spectacular time but I was exhausted after the trip. This was by far NOT a vacation, but I have come to realize that I am not sure when I will see the day/week when I can just sit back and be.

This year our trip was planned not only to coincide with Brandon’s work but also planned so we could have Hadley baptized. This even took place the day after we arrived. We were lucky to not only have my parents but also my brother Drew, wife Ashley and nephew Nate along with one of my dearest friends Sarah, her husband Scott and son Mackie join us in the celebration of Hadley’s baptism. The night prior to the event, we all gathered at The River Club and feasted on a fantastic meal overlooking the river. My dad took all of the little ones out on his boat which for Tucker, was a HUGE hit. Of course he said “Pop pop tiny boat” which got a chuckle out of me since we have been working with Tucker on his expressive vocabulary and all of a sudden this came out. What really made the night was watching the boys, who are all very close in age, play together. For Tucker and Nate, cousins, this was really the first time that they had met. They sure did not miss a beat and dove right into learning how to barter for cars and trucks. Sorry Tucker, Nate has your cement truck! I think that Mackie took the prize for having the best appetite out of everyone and I bet in 18 years we will see him on the mound pitching for the Sox!! All in all, it was a memorable night but never enough time to catch up with friends and family.

Hadley’s baptism was amazing. We have such a great connection to St. Ann’s Church in that not only was Tucker baptized there but also Brandon and I were married there. Furthermore, Reverend Agnew performed all of our services. I think that having a connection to a church and a Reverend like that is very special. The icing on the cake, Sarah and Drew, are now godparents to both of our children. During the service Hadley got some great “air” time and both Tucker and Nate played very well with their cars. Mrs. Bush even took a few pictures of Hadley. Yes Tucker and Hadley, President Bush and Mrs. Bush were at Hadley’s service. Sorry, Tucker, we had a private ceremony for you.

Unfortunately, after the first weekend, Brandon had to travel for work. The downside, I got to deal with the tribulations of a 2 year old, the upside I went to see Andee in NH for a night. Tucker and Avery were SOOO cute together and watch out Ryder, Hadley had her eyes on you! Tucker flourished in Maine. It must have been the nice crisp clean air! His ability to communicate blossomed, something that had been worrying me for a bit of time. It was like a light a switch went on and before I knew it, I was about to tell him to stop talking and asking questions. He went from garble babble to asking questions and saying a lot. His favorite phrase – Pop pop Antique Car. This was in reference to my parents Red MGB which Tucker fell in love with and got a few rides in. The vast improvement in his ability to communicate was such a relief.

I have failed to mention Tucker’s new friend, Snickers, my parents 5 month old puppy (born 3 days after Hadley). But let me take a step back and take a moment to remember a very very important family member, Skooter, who passed away early this summer. My parents got Skooter 15 years ago when Drew and I were in college. He was a remarkable dog who brought all of us so much happiness. If either Drew or I were coming home my parents would tell Skooter that he had a surprise coming. Immediately he would wait in anxious anticipation, always ready to greet us with lots of jumping and licks. Then he would do laps around the house. He had and endless supply of energy. As Drew coined once, he was the “Duracell puppy” in that one of Skooter’s first Christmas’s with us he just never slowed down and wore all of us out.

Brandon remembers his first encounter with Skooter fondly. We had only been dating about 4 months and we traveled down to South Carolina to spend Easter with my parents. This was the first time my parents and Brandon had met. That first night Brandon woke up to Skooter trying to push him around on the bed. Basically being a dog bed hog. The next morning my parents were wondering where Skooter had spent the night since Skooter ALWAYS slept in their room. Brandon did not quite know how to tell them that Skooter had made his way into his room and monopolized the bed. Brandon and I still laugh about this as Skooter got to spend the night with my boyfriend and I was stuck in the adjoining room alone. The last time I got to see Skooter was this past May. While I know that Skooter is in a great place and am grateful for all of the memories, I am saddened by the fact that I did not give him one last hug before he left, I just expected that I would see him again this summer.

The physical void that Skooter left needed to be filled and with that, Snickers was welcomed into the family. Ok, you are thinking, a newborn, an energetic toddler and a puppy all under one roof HOW?? Well it was an interesting time. There were moments of stress and tension because one or both (meaning dog and toddler) were misbehaving but in the end, their joyful exuberance was fun to watch. Tucker and Snickers became best bud’s. They would run laps around the kitchen, would play with toys, and even run together on the beach. Tucker would even insist on taking Snickers for a walk and get his leash and try to drag him around the family room. So one must be asking, when are we going to get a dog? I would have to be insanely drunk to give into that one right now. So my answer, give me a year. I am all for having a dog but right now, juggling 2 is enough!

Yes Hadley was on the trip as well...she was just so easy going and mellow. Sorry my girl, your brother monopolizes our time sometimes and because you are so good and sweet we just smile at and with you. Hadley continued to roll and roll and roll! It really is amazing watching her and how alert she is. She loved to grab at toys (and hair) and really started to get her knees under her butt. Hmmm crawling anytime??? Lets hope not, I am not ready for that!!

After spending a little over 2 weeks in Maine we started our journey home but not before spending 5 days in Mystic, Connecticut. On our way down we first stopped in Boston to go to the Children’s Museum and to see Daniele and her son Jack. We learned a HUGE lesson that day. NEVER NEVER NEVER go to a children's museum on a rainy day! The place was packed like sardines and while the boys did not really seem to mind, we were a bit flustered. Oh well, it was still great to see D and Jack and next summer we will plan on meeting up on a remote island :)

Once in Mystic we stayed with Debbie and Rich, friends of ours that had moved from Annapolis earlier this year. It worked out great because their daughter Kate is several months older than Tucker. For Tucker, he finally had another toddler his age to get crazy with. Now all Tucker talks about is Kate this, Kate that...Needless to say, he had a BLAST! Cara and Hadley just took it all in and were good little girls. Brandon and I were able to check out the area a bit which was good. Of course the highlight of the trip for Brandon was actually getting a tour of a sub from Rich. He came home with a smile from ear to ear and just said WOW! This after confirming that I would not have liked to take the tour due to extremely confined spaces. After leaving Mystic we drove to NYC to have dinner with the Teeters before returning to Greenwich for the night. It was great to see Rob and Melissa as we had not seen them in a couple of years. The next morning we got to see Aunt Sally (my godmother) and then we popped in to see Nate on his 2nd birthday. The boys picked up right where they left off, trading cars and trucks. This time the cement truck stayed with Nate.

Maryland oh Maryland oh Maryland, what awaited us when we got back...a hose that had been eaten while we were gone and thus a mini swamp in our backyard. Needless to say a good fall project on our hands. We also retuned to the humidity, expletives that I just can’t write.

Tucker has started school (St. Anne’s and Maryland Hall for the Arts –Artstart) and so far so good. The first week was a bit of an adjustment, but all in all he did well. I did not have any emotional “my son is so grown up” breakdowns. I was actually elated and excited that he was about to embark on a new adventure. I realize that some mother’s cry and have trouble letting go but for me, I love seeing where new things will take him. He is ready and this is the right thing for HIM. So I can probably forecaset the fact that I will not cry when he actually does go to school full time. Hadley is elated because this means that she gets some one on one mommy daughter time! I am happy because I get some Hadley time as well as some down time. It is a win win situation for all of us!

Tucker...monkey see monkey do. Since Aug Tuckers vocabulary has exploded. As mentioned before, I was worried about his delay in communicating, he seemed to be lagging other kids his age. My concern was legitimized in July through a county Infant and Toddler speech assessment. I hate to say that he failed something but he showed a delay in his ability to “express” himself and thus qualified for some extra help. Prior to leaving for Maine in Aug we met with his instructor and she gave us some things to work on while we were away. Needless to say that when we returned the instructor was amazed at his progress. All of a sudden it is like a light went off and now he does not stop talking and we can understand him. Now he is always asking, “what’s this?” One fascination he has is with the moon and I am starting to wonder how much longer I can keep saying that the reason the moon is not out is because it is napping. Or, if we are in the car and he wants to hear Elmo and I do not want to listen to Elmo, I have to tell him that Elmo is asleep. He promptly follows with “Elmo, wake up.”

For Hadley, she is always in school :) Each day is a new learning experience for her because well...there is so much for her to learn. She just takes it all in like an eager beaver. I am forever impressed with her ability to just play with things. One of her favorite toys is a mirror with a twirling ball attached to it. When I put her on the floor she immediately turns her head to figure out where the mirror is and the next thing I know, she has rolled over and is in front of it grabbing at the ball. Another milestone, she is sleeping on her stomach. We had a rough couple of weeks but now she is great and trying to sleep on her knees.

Other events to quickly note. Tucker and I had our first crab’s at Cantler’s (local but very popular crab place on the water). My opinion, hassle food to the nth degree. Tucker was not too sure about the crabs. His expressions were priceless. Sesame Street Live – my birthday was going to see Elmo as a family. Tucker had SOOO much fun. His two favorite characters, Elmo and Ernie. Now he likes to sleep with his Ernie doll, along with his “buddies” skip it and bunny. They are never far.

Month 3 with a trip to OBX

Month 3, poor Hadley just gets schlepped around these days. I remember with Tucker I was so cognizant of his napping (well he never napped) but at least trying to get him on a schedule. With her, I feel like her baby needs are thrown out the window to make way for our/Tucker needs. Again, I will make it up to her.

Hadley took 2 big trips during her 3rd month. The first was a family trip to Duck, NC, aka OBX. Brandon’s parents rented a house on the water for a week so all of us packed up and spent a blistering hot week at the beach. Hadley was such a trooper!!! Tucker had a blast. Not only did he get to play with his cousins, but he also got to play with a puppy! For Brandon and me, that meant at least 3 people to keep him occupied/entertained and for us to take a semi break. One of the highlights, if not the highlight for me, was date night with Brandon. Ah...we didn't know what to do with our selves. We were both so used to rushing through dinner, we I am at least, that I did not know how to just chill. Well another beer helped that!!

On the beach he had fun but unfortunately there was not much of a beach beach for Tucker to really play on and explore. Personally, I am used to a low tide and a high tide and with that, when the tide is out, a vast amount of beach to play on...tidal pools and the such. Nonetheless, he was busy being the dismantler and climbing on sandcastles and falling into sand tunnels that Kate, Will and Brandon created. Fortunately they were all good sports and let Tucker be Tucker. Meanwhile, Hadley chilled inside or, on a few occasions, in her tent on the beach.

Immediately after OBX, Hadley and I flew up to Maine so I could play in the member guest golf tournament with my mom. Usually I fly up alone but this time I we braved the trip together (the beginning of mother/daughter trips?). She was wonderful. Not only did she do an amazing job flying but she also was a rock star shopping (a girl after my own heart). It was nice to have a little mother/daughter bonding time with her just like it was nice to have some mother/daughter bonding time with my mom on the golf course. While I did not hit the ball well my mom and our playing partners, Delta and Karen Fuller, stole the show. So much so, we came in 5th!

Constantly I have to remind myself not to compare Tucker and Hadley but I have to admit, thus far, she seems far more alert and more coordinated than he was at this point. It might have something to do with the fact that she does not cry all the time and with that, she seems to be more calm. She is already grabbing things (probably unintentional) and I give her a couple of weeks before she rolls over. She seems so close if it were not for her arm. When I put her on her stomach she has amazing neck and back strength and she really likes to stand. HIGHLIGHT....News reel, a couple months into her forth month, she rolled over!! More to come!!

Tucker continues to enjoy camp even though it is somewhat of a struggle to get him in the door in the mornings. Brandon says that Tucker won't let go but after some coaxing he is off playing with a toy. His teachers say that he is doing really well and is no problem. I think the highlight of each day is when they go out and play in the water. He is always trying to recreate a water splash for me. Very cute.

See links for random home pictures and OBX pictures.

Month 2

Oh boy, this is bucking up against Month 3 and I feel like I have forgotten what happened in Month 2. I am sorry Hadley, I will make it up to you in later years. Shoes, bags, button downs... I will get with it soon!!

Month 2 flew by and maybe I am having trouble remembering because she is easier that Tucker was. We did have our moments but thanks to an altered diary diet on my behalf she is doing much better. She started to smile this month and wow, it has knocked me out. I love it and even more, I can't wait to see it everyday! What gets me even more than her smile is when Tucker joins her on the mat and I get smiles from both of them. Unfortunately I have not been able to capture these moments on camera but they are embedded in my heart! Tucker is such a wonderful brother, so gentle and kind with her. Well except for the day he dragged her off her playmat. From that point forward I have had to pay extra special attention and create some boundaries when she is on her mat. For the most part he is good about respecting her space but sometimes he just wants to curl up with her and give her LOTS of kisses. How can I refuse brotherly love?

Tucker had an adventurous month. He started camp and LOVED it! We got him his own special backpack and it is his responsibility to wear it into camp and at the end of the session, to wear it out to the car. He looks so grown up now. Yes I am shedding tears. Tucker's big outing of the month was taking Brandon on a Pirate Boat adventure for Fathers Day (95 degrees). Hadley and I were smart and stayed in the AC. According to Brandon Tucker was much more interested in looking at the boats and not so much interested in the Pirate Adventure. Maybe we will wait a couple more years before we do that again.

A Family of 4 One Month Later

How easily we forgot what is was like with a newborn but how quickly we have started to remember. I have to say that compared to when Tucker was a baby, Hadley thus far is much easier. I know, that will change. All in all, we have some colic (but NOTHING like Tucker), mostly during the witching hours, followed by some reflux and topped off with days when I feel like I am attached to the sofa nursing. Our patience has been tried and we have had moments when we have thrown up our hands and said "I have no idea what is going in, I have tried everything" = welcome to parenthood! I guess these are things that a cold beer and a good shoulder rub can fix.

Since this is now a blog about a family of 4 (sorry Hadley you do not get your own blog entries like Tucker did) we have to comment on Tucker. Since the first day in the hospital and throughout, Tucker has been an AMAZING older brother. He is always looking for Hadley (or as he will sometimes say Ladley or baby), wanting to give her hugs and kisses and when he can, giving her her binkie. We are so relieved that he has not asked us to kick her out of the house. This is not to say that he has not had some “moments” like the time I found him plunging the toilet or when he ripped down more of his wallies. All in all, he has been very patient and loving and we know that he is going to be a great older brother.

A moment of reflection. It is funny how the man upstairs always knows what is best. When we found out that our first child was going to be a boy I was elated and relieved. Boys I could handle. No drama...no frilly girlie things...straight shooters and they love to just play with cars and balls. I could do that. Then when we found out that we would be adding to the family I was not sure if I wanted a boy or a girl. In all actuality, I just wanted a healthy baby but part of me was REALLY scared at the prospect of a girl. What would I do with dolls? Ruffles? Drama? Well I am sooo glad that nature had its way and did not listen to my inner thoughts because when I look at Hadley my heart fills with so much joy and excitement. It is excitement over all of the fun things that I get to share with her, things that only a mother daughter can share. I am so happy that I have someone that I can share these things with just like I do with my own mom. The mother daughter bond is very powerful and special and I am so happy that I will be able to be a part of it with Hadley. Of course I still secretly hope that she likes cars over dolls and anything and everything over tea parties (sorry all I just can’t do make believe dress up tea).

A family of 3 became a family of 4 - Welcome Hadley

On April 23rd, 2010 at 9:29am we welcomed the forth member of our family, Hadley Breckinridge. She was 7 lbs 14 ounces and 20 1/2 inches and very healthy! Except for the dark hair, she looks like Tucker when he was born. We LOVE the chubby cheeks!! Unlike Tucker's surprise arrival, Hadley's date of arrival was planned. However, for many, she was a surprise since we decided to keep the scheduled date to ourselves, except for our parents. Our rationale was that since most pregnancies are a surprise for everyone, we still wanted to keep it a surprise.

The day of her arrival was somewhat stressful in that it was the first time that we had left Tucker for any significant amount of time. I knew that he was in good hands but still, I was sad to leave him. So, as we pulled out of the driveway and on the way to the hospital, I had to fight back my tears and focus on the excitement to come. I kept telling myself that I would see him later in the day. Besides the birth of my 2 children, one of the other greatest "mom" moments was seeing Tucker and then watching him give Hadley a kiss on her forehead. I am sure that his love for her had something to do with the fact that she gave him a nice box of new Duplo Lego's :)

After five days in the hospital we were all ready to come home and settle into our new life as a family of four. Tucker was ELATED when we walked in the door. Hadley just let us know that she needed to be fed. While life with a newborn and a very energetic toddler is chaotic, we wouldn't have it any other way. Brandon did tell me that if I mention wanting a third child that he would quickly go out and get a dog :)

Spring Photos Of Tucker

Just a few random photo's of Tucker.

Rainy Day Lobster





Tucker on his bike

Tucker Turns 2!

Happy 2nd Birthday Tucker!



I can’t believe how fast our little boy is growing up. He really is the apple of our eye and we both feel so fortunate to have such a fun loving, energetic, happy go lucky boy like Tucker in our lives. He just lights up our life with his amazing smile and fun giggles.

As the days tick away Tucker is about to become an older brother. I do not think that he really grasps the idea that I am carrying around his baby sister but he will give my belly a rub and sometimes a kiss. While initially it might be a little rough for him when she arrives, since he really has been the center of attention. All in all though, I think that he will adjust well and be an amazing older brother. This based on the fact that he has such a kind disposition and takes well to other babies.

Due to her impending arrival, we moved Tucker into a big boy room complete with a toddler bed. He has taken to his new room and bed very well. However, like any toddler with new found freedom, he has, on occasion, ransacked his room. This would entail pulling EVERYTHING out of his dresser drawers (including diapers and socks), pulling all of his books off the book case, pulling cloths out of his hamper, taking apart his light, and once, he tore all of his wallies (pre plastered cut-outs) off his wall. Needless to say I was furious! But I think the novelty of haphazard behavior is wearing off and now he is pretty good about going down for his naps and bedtime without too much fuss.

We are looking forward to the upcoming year and having fun continuing to explore the intricacies of toddlerhood with Tucker. It is never a dull moment around here and that is the way we like it.

Snowpalooza 2010 Update

We are not sure what to call it....snowpalooza, snowmageddon, snowpocalypse either way mother nature decided to dump 34" of snow on us in a matter of 2 days (Friday and Saturday). This has basically paralyzed the region. We did not see a plow trunk until Sunday late late afternoon and even so, the roads are FAR from clear. Unfortunately we are expecting another similar storm starting tomorrow which is scheduled to bring 10-20 inches of new snow. Right now we are all wondering where to put the snow.

As the snow continued to fall, Tucker and I were left to weather (no pun intended) the second storm on our own. This called for some drastic changes to how we were going to survive in the house all week without Brandon. Basically, all the rules were thrown out the door. What is one to do when left alone with an energetic toddler and me feeling VERY pregnant? Presto, the air mattress came out. Instead of jumping all over the furniture I decided that it was time to jump on an air mattress. This helped pass some time. Other fun activities that Tucker engaged in, not typically allowed, climbing on the windows to look outside, climbing on his toy storage so he could really see outside and dancing on the coffee table. We had a little disco party one afternoon, I was going insane, so I figured that we needed to dance. Rather than try to bend down to his level I let him come up to my level. This was a hit for about 5 minutes.

All in all, in less than a week, we received a total of about 48"'s. I wish I had my nordic skis down here or even had a pair of snow shoes. Chaos ensued as the crews worked around the clock to try to clear the roads but where does one put the snow. Typically we received about 18"'s of snow in an entire winter, this was record breaking!! I just feel bad for the kids and teachers having to make up all of the snow days.

New Years Eve 2009

We rang the New Year in with the kids around 7:30! After all of the travel and trying to get Tucker back on a normal sleep schedule, we decided to ring in the New Year quietly with several good friends. Also, seeing that 2 of us are pregnant, we were not game for a wild and crazy night. The lack of consumption of libations on a celebration night can be a downer at times. Oh well. Next year I will be ready so all, watch out!!

The McMunn's hosted a great New Year's complete with a GPS serving as the New Year's Ball and balloons falling from the staircase. The kids (Tucker, Anna and Kate) had a great time!!! Unfortunately, we tried to watch the Annapolis family fireworks but due to fog, they were not visible. I highly doubt that those who were even at the event could see them. Regardless, we sparked our own fun and even better, topped it off with being in bed by 9:00. I think Brandon stayed awake and watched the ball drop but I was fast asleep!!!

Christmas 2009

Christmas 2009 was spent in South Carolina with my parents. Unfortunately, we missed the blizzard of 2009 but I was elated to leave Maryland and to see my parents. I know that they were equally excited to see us and of course Tucker. We had not seen them since the end of August.

Tucker was delighted to reconnect with his friend Skooter (15 year old blind and deaf Cocker). I am not too sure how much Skooter enjoyed Tucker's attention but Tucker sure let us know that he is ready for a dog pal. The true test is whether I am ready to handle a toddler and a dog while being pregnant. We will see.

Much like the rest of the East Coast, it was a little cold in South Carolina. We had left our golf clubs home knowing that it was going to be cool. Instead we explored a little. We went to the USS Yorktown, wandered around Charleston, went to a Fire Truck Museum and of course went to the beach a couple of times. Seabrook Island had also just finished an amazing sports complex that fall so we were able to take Tucker to a great playground as well as take him swimming! He had a blast in the water which was encouraging since he was not always too happy about being in my parents pool this past summer.

Christmas was a blast with Tucker!! We waited until Tucker was asleep on Christmas Eve to put our presents under the tree and then sometime in the night Santa arrived with more gifts for everyone as well as filled the stockings. Needless to say Tucker was very surprised when he woke up on Christmas morning to see the tree full of gifts. He quickly ran over to a gift and wanted to open it. He threw a mini tantrum when we dragged him away so we could open stockings. Actually the adults had started a little before Tucker woke up so, if need be, we could help him out. So we gathered around my parents bed and introduced Tucker to his stocking. At first all he wanted to do was open Brandon's stocking gifts until he realized that there were actual gifts in his stocking. Soon he was a pro and having a blast opening his gifts.

After stockings we quickly cleaned up and started cooking breakfast. This did not sit well with Tucker as he wanted to start opening the gifts under the tree. I think that he thought that this was torture. Here the gifts are all out and now he still can't open anything as it was time for breakfast. Eventually he will learn the and did survive breakfast. By the time we all sat down for gifts Tucker was more than eager to show off his unwrapping skills and he did. He was VERY good about waiting for his turn and at times was a great helper in unwrapping gifts. We were all blessed to receive such great gifts and we all basked in watching Tucker open gifts and play with them. It was such a special moment and I felt fortunate that we got to share the excitement and experience with my parents. As a parent, it was so much fun to watch and to experience Tucker's excitement.

I am already looking forward to Christmas next year and even more excited for Tucker to share the experience with his new baby sister.

Happy Holiday's to all and Wishing Everyone a Happy New Year!!

Pre Holiday's 2009

I am getting very slow in updating our blog. Life seems to have taken over. With a very active toddler and being pregnant, all I want to do is sleep when I can. We had a great end to the fall and early start to the winter.

This year we stayed in Maryland and spent Thanksgiving with Brandon's family. Tucker had a great time with his cousins. Shortly after Thanksgiving we had our first snowfall and Tucker was very excited about playing outside. Unfortunately we had neglected to get toddler mittens so he had to wear my mittens. It did not seem to stop him from exploring.

One of Tucker's greatest fascinations is trains. He LOVES them and with that, we took him to Homestead Garden's after Thanksgiving so he could see their elaborate train set. We actually went several times and each time, he was elated and kept pointing and saying "choo choo."

Since we were spending Christmas with my family, we had an early Christmas celebration with Brandon's family. Again, Tucker was happy to spend time with his cousins and this was a test to see how he was going to do when it came to the real day and opening gifts. After banging away on the piano and eating a delicious Roast Beef meal, we opened gifts. At first Tucker was a little confused and was more interested in being neat about his opening. With each little tear he would hand the paper to either Brandon or me. We were a little worried that opening gifts on Christmas was going to turn into an all day event. However, he soon got the hang of opening gifts and by the end, was more interested in playing with his toys than opening gifts.

Florida trip and Leaf Day

Florida in November, we could not complain especially since it was in the 70s and we were not far from water. Tucker and I decided to tag along with Brandon on his quarterly management meeting, but not without trepidation. This was Tucker's first flight and we were both very nervous about a) room on the plane and b) how he would react to take off and landing. All in all, he did very well however, we will not be flying again anytime soon with him. Despite having an open seat for Tucker, he still was not too happy about being confined on a plane nevertheless, in a tiny row. Two plus hours is just a little too much for a boy who never stops moving. Our saving grace, flash cards!!!

Once in Tampa Tucker and I had a good time. We visited the Lowry Park Zoo, which was a very nice zoo and very kid friendly, as well as a fun children's museum. The last day, Brandon did not have meetings so we made it to the beach. Tucker had a blast!!! He loved digging in the sand with shells and running in and out of the water.

What awaited us upon our return was a lawn FULL of leaves. Tucker had a fun time playing in the leaves while we labored over packing bag after bag of leaves! I like trees but HATE the fall when all of the leaves fall!!!

Happy Halloween

Tucker wanted to wish everyone a HAPPY HALLOWEEN. Our little monkey had a great Halloween which even included a little trick or treating. Of course we are eating his candy for him.

Tucker decided that he wanted to trick or treat with 2 of his friends, Anna and Zoe, so the dad's took the kids out to eat after we all had a nice pot luck dinner at our friend Janet's. Brandon said that Tucker was very good and even waited his turn for the candy.

Prior to Halloween we had every intention of going back to the pumpkin farm that we went to last year. Unfortunately the weather never cooperated so we settled for a small pumpkin patch nearby. Because we were so late in getting our pumpkins and due to the weather, we never ended up carving the pumpkins. Much to Brandon's dismay and much to my delight. Next year Tucker will be old enough to understand but I just did not want to deal with the mess.

The same day we got our pumpkins we also went to a little Halloween festival at a different location. This is where Tucker rode a pony for the first time. He seemed to have a good time. He also REALLY enjoyed his ride behind a tractor in a pumpkin car. At first, while the tractor was idle and we were waiting, he was not too keen on being in the car. But when the tractor started moving he was very excited. It really is the little things that get us all excited and happy!!!

Fall 2009

I have gotten a little behind with our blog. Our biggest news is that Tucker will be big brother come May. If only Tucker would understand that I need naps just as much as he does and that I am not a jungle gym. I have tried to tell him that Brandon is the jungle gym and I am the one who gets all of the hugs. Someday he will listen.

While the pregnancy has slowed me down a little, Tucker and I have taken several field trips (only a couple I have pictures from). The first was to a place set up with an enchanted forest/maze and a petting zoo. Tucker thought the maze was fun but was definitely more interested in the animals. He really has no fear when it comes to any animals, as you will be able to see as he tries to back into a baby goat. We have also been to the National Zoo and to the Maryland Science Center.

On a nice crisp day Tucker and I ventured across the bridge to the Eastern Shore to a huge pumpkin farm. While we did not get any pumpkins we did have fun playing around on their playground. Tucker really enjoyed climbing in the tractors and touching their giant tires. This has become a fascination of his. When he sees cars he tries to go up to them and touch their tires and this did not stop him when he saw the tractors.

The last set of pictures is from a trip to Longwood Gardens in PA. WOW! What an amazing place. We drove up to meet up with my college friend Heather and her husband before they move to Australia. Tucker LOVED the train set. He was going nuts watching them. Hmmm...what is he going to get for Christmas this year?

Tucker continues to amaze us and he is growing up so fast. Before you could count the milestones weekly or so but now they seem daily. Just the other day he was saying shoes and next thing we knew he was in Brandon's size 11 penny loafers trying to walk around the kitchen. Tucker definitely impresses us with all that he understands. While most of the time he listens to us we are still working on those No moments with him. Hopefully he will learn to stop turning the TV on and off and to stop dialing the phone.

August in Maine

Wow, where is the time going? We are having the time of our life with Tucker. He is so much fun to be with and ALWAYS on the go. Now that he is walking our lives have changed and as such we are perpetually tired having chased him all day. We basically went from crawling to running and he has not slowed down since!

We feel so lucky to have such a fun loving always smiling and laughing, toddler. He truly makes our days when he graces us one of his big smiles or better yet, will run up and give us a hug. As each day passes he understands more and more. Just the other day I asked him to bring me a book and then sit down next to me for which he proceeded to get a book and then with straight legs, dropped right down next to me.

So much of his development seemed to start when we went to Maine. He had just started to really walk right before we left for Maine and was understanding some things but nothing too spectacular. By the time we left he was running all over the place and was acknowledging body parts. I know, it sounds so simple, but I was so amazed and excited with everything that he was learning. It must have been Maine :)

It was wonderful to be able to spend some much quality time with my parents since we rarely get to see them. I know Tucker sure had a blast with them, especially since Mimi and Grandpa kept insisting on ice cream for him. Tucker also had a great pal in Skooter (my parents 15 yr old deaf and blind Cocker), and I know that Skooter LOVED all of the chicken nuggets that Tucker dropped on the floor for him. After moving several items and vigilantly watching others, the house for the most part, was Tucker proofed. I do not think that my parents were expecting Tucker to be as active as he was. That was when Mimi decided to find my old matchbox cars and trucks and after that, Tucker had a new love affair with cars!!! It was rare to see him walk around the house without a car in his hand, and that still continues today.

Since Tucker decided to wake up between 5:00-6:00 every morning, we decided that it was best to let him run off some early morning energy on the beach. So every morning we took him to the beach and coincidentally this was also the time that dogs were permitted to be on the beach. Tucker had a BLAST playing with the dogs and he even got to meet Mrs. Bush and her two dogs on several occasions. He also loved playing in the sand and in the water. There really was no better way to start the day off!

During the days we had many little trips and expeditions for Tucker. For me the most fun was taking him to the beach to really play in the sand and water. He loved to find ditches to crawl into and really loved the tidal pools where he could pick little snails off the rocks and throw them back in the water. He also really liked to watch the waves break and occasionally they would break right in front of him. I am envisioning LOTS of time on the beach next summer as he will love building and digging more.

Tucker also got to experience a lot of firsts...his first swim in the ocean, first boat ride, first lobster, first trip to LL Bean, first touch of an elephant and many more. Tucker also got a nice wave from President Bush (George) as he was fishing and he did pretty well the first time we took him to church but the second time, well he was more interested in playing with the cars and looking over the sea wall. The good and the bad, it afforded me the opportunity to catch up with a friend and his two kids during church. The bad, I really wanted Tucker to sit still so I could enjoy the church service. Maybe next year.

Unfortunately Brandon was only able to take off a little over a week. After he left, Tucker and I went on several trips to catch up with friends. Our first trip was to Portsmouth to see our friend Leigh. After a great lunch we discovered a wonderful toy store!!! Then we headed to the Boston Aquarium to see Daniele and for Tucker to meet Jack. They had fun together at lunch!!! We were also fortunate to see Auntie Sarah and to finally meet Mackie. Tucker provided an early baby proofing lesson for Sarah as he managed to find EVERY remote control possible, pull out the carbon monoxide detector from the wall, turn over the dogs water bowl, and pick up ever nice sea shell possible. Boys. Then we headed up to see Andee and Avery in Guilford! Secretly Andee and I are planning Avery and Tucker's wedding :) They were just too cute together and had so much fun playing around. Hopefully all of our trips to see friends will become yearly since we do not get to see them nearly enough. Next summer I would like to add more because there just is not enough time to see everyone and it always breaks my heart when I leave and I think about everyone that I was not able to see.

After three great weeks it was sad to leave but we look forward to our time in Maine again next summer! More importantly, Tucker can't wait to see Mimi and Grandpa again so he can get some more ice cream :)

Happy 4th of July

Happy 4th of July! We had a wonderful weekend celebrating the 4th with friends as well as watching some great tennis and golf. On Saturday, before we headed to Annapolis for the 4th of July parade, Tucker did some yard exploration and car driving.

DIRT DIRT DIRT whether in the sand box or around the yard, Tucker finds it and gets dirty. Much to my chagrin! So he did a little investigative work by our fence where our neighbors dogs have been digging and Brandon has tried to fill the holes with excess dirt. Then Tucker decided to play with his ride on car. He did some walking and riding with it until he told us he wanted to ride down our little hill. He saw a friend doing it the night before and thought that it was very cool. First and second time it was a hit, the third, MAN OVERBOARD. There was a little blood but nothing that was not cured with an ice cube and a big hug. Surprisingly, he was back on the car and wanting to go back down the hill shortly after.

We left our camera home for the parade and well, speaking frankly, it was not a camera worthy event. Friends and Tucker yes, it would have been nice to get some shots but the parade itself, much to be desired!!! Maybe next year we will be able to stay for some music and fireworks. Instead I was more than happy to get home and watch the Boston fireworks on TV!!!

June Adventures

The big news is that Tucker is FINALLY starting to walk. He still prefers to crawl when he wants to get someplace fast, but more and more he is starting to walk. We call him the drunken sailor since he is still a little uneasy on his legs. All in all, the walking has capped off a little toddler that can now get anywhere and will climb up and down anything. We have only had one minor casualty (see 4th of July pictures) but that was due to some reckless car driving. Seat belts were definitely not in use!!!

June has gone by like a tornado. We have kept very busy with little excursions. Tucker took his first train ride at a little park and he even got to shake Cal's hand. Well, a plaster one that is. We met one of my college friends and her daughter in Baltimore at the Maryland Science Center and enjoyed a fun time in the Kid Zone. They had a lot for Tucker to do and explore. Besides being intrigued with Cal's hand, Tucker also really enjoyed his time around the water area. So much so that he figured out how to spray himself as well as, others around him.

We look forward to more adventures in July.

Tucker's First Hair Cut

We are 3 days away from Tucker turning 15 months and the time had come, a hair cut was NEEDED. I was getting tired of having to correct people when they would say things like, "SHE looks so cute." AHHH Tucker is ALL boy!!

So we headed to Pig Tails and Crew Cuts for Tucker's first hair cut. What an amazing place to take a kid. He got to pick between a fire truck, airplane or police car in which to get his hair cut in. He wanted to sit in the police car but was amused by the other 2 chairs during his cut. They saddled him up with some toys and a cape and away they went cutting his hair. He actually sat relatively still much to my amazement. We were able to save a little bit of his hair and all in all, happy with his first cut. Well, the bangs are a little shorter than we wanted but oh well.

The Adventures of Storyville

Once upon a time there were 2 toddlers and 2 mothers who were seeking a mighty fun adventure. They searched and they searched until one mother found a place with a child sized village (indoors of course). This magical village is a place where kids can explore various environments and discover new activities. Eager to try something new and to get others involved, word spread quickly that they were going to go on a trip to Storyville.

One Two pack the snacks, Three Four jump in the seats, Five Six a clap and a clap, Seven Eight a wisp and a whirl Nine Ten and off to Storyville we go! With two little kids all buckled in their seats and two moms eager for a chat, the car headed north to Rosedale we went.

In Sum this place was amazing! There were seven themed learning areas within the mighty village and each area included a different activity as well as books and engaging materials to help promote literacy. Tucker enjoyed playing in all of the various areas!!! We had a great road trip with Janet and Anna and look forward to more fun adventures this summer!!